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Hi, Mr. Rhyno 007, Love Therapist, please I need all your attention on this issue in which I am about to let you know. I have been married for 3 years being childless. For this time, I have had two premature deliveries. One preceding when we got married while the other was in marriage.
Before we got married, I had an awesome well-paying job. Shockingly, my family and spouse requested that I leave so I can go along with him to another region and focus on building my new home. I liked the advice and we began without any preparation. Even though he was working, he didn’t have anything to show due to his ways of managing money. I was so quiet with him for nearly 12 months, I needed to show him how to save for the rainy day. He rapidly adjusted. We had enough due to savings and we began a business. I was there to help him even though I didn’t have a bit idea about our business since it includes more professional skills or knowledge to run it. I was there to assist him with cleaning the instruments or tools, clear, promote, give quotations, write receipts and every single straightforward thing I can oversee and manage. I did everything to satisfy him and make him a better husband.
Following eighteen months which is one and a half years of opening up the business, we figured out how to purchase new flats and a plot of land which made us have additional cash as a result of the rentals. My loving husband transformed all of a sudden. He has a sweetheart who calls at any time of the day. She would visit home or the workplace claiming to be a client. Now he sleeps with my client. Right now, we said we would live beneath our means of livelihood so we can develop our business. I barely purchase clothes or costly hair. (I don’t look untidy. Most of the time, I rather look presentable. She would welcome me with smiles indirectly mocking me. She realizes whatever is going on in our home because my husband reveals to her everything, mostly my shortcomings or weakness.
My husband has lost regard for me. He interacts with me impolitely. He gets irritated with little issues and we would go for quite a long time without talking with each other. He does not overlook little things like I neglected to close the window in the extra room. The miserable thing is that he has even quit going to church where he was ordained a Deacon. I have attempted to be a decent spouse but he doesn’t see it. I have no servants. My day begins at 4:30am. I first tidy up the house and set up his morning meal by 6:30am. I drive to the workplace to tidy up with the goal that he sees it clean and tidy when he resumes at 8am. He doesn’t see this rather he discovers negative things about me and blames me constantly and says he can clean better than I do that he has tasted preferable and better food over mine.
A week ago, my previous boss called me enlightening me concerning the opportunity I left where I was working. The seat was still vacant. I was told they couldn’t discover somebody as intelligent and capable as me. (The activities includes fixing machines) and they would love me to return promptly. All these separation and isolate period is all over. They have offered me a superior or higher compensation than the last one with numerous advantages and benefits. The work is based in Abuja, which means I can likewise do other hustles to make additional money as a means of income. I have been inquiring as to whether I should go out, leave my spouse and accept this open door that has come, the other me is stating that I should remain and fix my marriage. What would you advise anyone in my situation to do in this situation? To take the job or remain with my marriage and fix it? It would be of great joy if you, sharing Life family, assist me. Much thanks to you.
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